Attitude Series Part 3

Attitude Part 3

by 

Jeb

09 2015

Emoticons: Smiling face by nicubunu created 2009-03-17

Many people don't grasp that they have the control to determine their attitude. 

Many times you will here people say that their having a bad day, or that they hope they will have a good day tomorrow.  What they don't realize is that they are the ones that actually decide if they have a good day or not.  Your attitude determines the kind of day you will have.  

You can choose to have a good day.

So have a good day!

You can choose to be positive and see the positive side to everything, no matter if the situation appears negative, remember appearances aren't always as they seem.

Enthusiasm              Positivity

What persons don't realize is that it's not what happens to you, but how you choose to respond to what happens to you that matters.    You can search for the positive and how it can advance you every single day.   Attitude determines everything.   

 Confidence            Self-Esteem

Many times you will hear psychologists say the only person you can control is yourself.  That phrase has been seen as a position of weakness because it states that you can't control the situation or people that you would like to change.  But truly it is actually a strength!

Posing Bodybuilder By SRD created 2008-04-24

Think about it.

It's like when you have a mission your on and you have someone connected to you that are not pulling their weight.  You have to pull your and their weight, slowing you down.  In situations like that you literally wish you had a different person to partner with, someone that could carry their own weight. Or better yet you wish you could do it alone, that way you could just focus on yourself and getting the mission accomplished.

Man with heavy burden by Firkin created 2015-07-28 

Which is why it is wonderful to understand the power behind knowing that the only one you can control is yourself.  When you realize you can only be in control of yourself, you also realize your only resposibility is you.  That means you don't have to worry about the actions of others because you are only resposible for you, because you can only control yourself.

Therefore, don't try to control others.  Control yourself and be responsible for yourself.  Be your own boss, supervise yourself and your attitude.

businessman by shokunin created 2007-09-25